Turn Me On Coaching The Ethos of Freedom & Felicity

“Run from what’s comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on I’ll be mad.” ~ Rumi

They were upset with me for being honest, for speaking my mind, for refusing to submit to living my life by someone else’s rules and regulations.

And that was the moment that I knew…

I’m different and I embrace that choice.

If you understand the ethos behind what I’m sharing here, than you and I very well may be a fit for a unique relationship.

If you do or desire to embrace the idea that we create our own excitement, our own joy, and our own success however you measure it, then let’s speak.

Email me any questions you have at: [email protected] 

One Insight Changes Everything:

Have you ever experienced the power of an insight, an ‘ah-ha’ moment that shifted everything for you?

Imagine having insight after insight around any area that’s slowing you down?

You would move right through it with grace and ease. 

  • What if you have a powerful conversation and your life is changed forever? You might just want to keep having them.
  • What if this one investment in yourself leads to continual abundance and fulfillment? I’m talking about investing in your idea, in your self, in your inner knowing. You might just keep investing.
  • What if instead of looking for instant gratification you go for mastery. What if you said to yourself, “This is what I’m doing and nothing is going to stop me.”

Say that a few times and tell me how it feels.

That’s the power of a mission worthy of you; that’s how you turn on the world.

That’s why we will plunge-in.

You will gain clarity and then follow it with action so powerful, so fulfilling, that you will have no doubt what it means to live a turned on life.

You will be it, the very essence of life itself.

My Life Is About:

  • Exploring consciousness and the mind
  • Writing and Reading
  • Athleticism
  • Liberation for the individual
  • Human Potential
  • Performance Philosophy
  • Mindfulness
  • Having Conversations With Amazing People

Turn Me On Coaching Is About Me Turning You On To Your Inner Knowing and Then Not Letting You Stop Until You Are Turning On The World.

Email me right away at [email protected] and we’ll transform the world together.

Momentum Is Magic…

Today’s story is a tale of momentum, a tale of floating with the wind, a tale of letting go and entering the stream.

It’s a short story, with few characters, few words, and a simple plot.

The character, you.

The plot, distraction steals your mind from your future.

The outcome, you choose.

And in all of the wonder we find ourselves maneuvering in a million different ways, playing upon a landscape of distractions, of stretched thin desires, and in all of it, the flattening of our movement.

And in this we discover what we already know, momentum is the magic that creates miracles.

Keep Your Momentum Around The One Thing You Know Will Change Everything!

Find a person in your life that refuses to allow you to lose your momentum and watch the magic and miracles come about.

It’s up to you to find that person.

Unconventional and Bold It’s Your Life

The Story of Awakening Miracles In My Life…

The Journey Into Coaching and The Path Of Internal Expression… ( a personal story and why you might step into this realm as well. )

Life, love, adventure and the willingness to struggle and embrace the ease, the grace, and the chaos that is life…

It’s a strange loop of sorts that took me from one exploration to the other, to the uncovering of a curious desire to express all that life has to express in whatever form that may be.

And then to desire that for others to see and experience for themselves, to see what I see and understand, that in a deep way all of our lives are make believe.

There are no rules other than the rules we desire to follow at the moment we desire to follow them.

And when we can see that we have a completely new world to create from.

The freedom to express ourselves and to live as we choose exists as a reality right here right now.

And it was freedom of possibility that turned me on and continues to do so, the freedom to control our direction in life, our attititudes toward it, and the freedom to allow for whatever must be expressed to be expressed.

Thre is nothing more important in my life than freedom and the allowance on my part, to free that expression to come about as it must.

But there are massive challenges that come along with setting your standards high, with taking ownership of your own existence, and with accepting responsibility for everything that comes or doesn’t come.

It forces you to become an expert on yourself.

And that, to the dismay of most, is a life long process that carries on forever.

And most people want to be done growing, so they stop learning, stop expressing their desires and dreams, and they close up and shut down their inner voice.

I do it, have done it, and will contiue to do it too.

My desire for comfort has kept me at times, from living the wonderful life I often desire. It’s just how it goes sometimes.

But I love these obstacles, as these obstacles show, I am called to step up and honor the struggle and transformation.

At a fairly young age I saw for myself the confusion of the adult world. I saw the way people put power down on others in any way they can, unknowingly, most of them do, and most of us allow for it unknowingly as well.

When you see it, it transforms you instantly.

I saw it when I was young. It came from friends, from family, from teachers and coaches, and it came from msyelf as well.

I have never seen the world the same since.

But seeing and understanding are the beginning, and to this day, I have my struggles, and I’ve had my triumphs.

But they’re mine and like sharing your own night time dreams with a friend, it’s your dream and doesn’t have the same sense for them as it does for you; nevertheless it gives us an insight into ourselves and into the other.

And this chapter of my life has become something different than I expected it to be.

For example I made a choice a long time ago that my time was my number one desire to keep and use for myself as I imagined.

So I’ve spent the last 15 years free from working a 9 to 5 job, free from working too much on anything other than what I wanted to be working on, so I spent years meandering around cafes, having conversations with strangers, with friends.

I’ve sat in on many classes at Universities whenever I found a class that inspired.

For fun I did a psychology internship with a professor who was studying near death experiences in terminally ill patients.

Because of this huge amount of free time I was able to spend an entire summer reading Russian Literature while meandering under the clouds of the North West, U.S. all while continuing to pursue my desire to understand and know freedom, self expression, and the nature of reality.

It goes on and on and on. Amazing days, amazing struggles.

And then life shifted and I started to get bored, and so I began exploring whatever else might come, whatever else might inspire.

And for now it became about creating a bundle of money and wealth while doing work that is in alignment with the way I want to experience and play in the world.

And it’s a journey I’m going through right now.

When I was 19, I convinced three of my closest friends, friends who had very little money to each give me all that they had in savings.

I’ve been studying finance and I had chosen a stock that I knew we could make money on. At this time in my life, money and the money I didn’t have was a motivation for me and excited me enough to wake up every morning when the market opened. This was 1994.

They gave me what they had, I had to give it to my father to invest for me, because I didn’t have the right status yet to have my own accounts.

In 3 months we saw a 20% increase and all my friends wanted their money.

That was a glimmer of my mindset.

At some point things shifted and the human condition took over my life, my mind, and my desire to know an explore.

Reality shifted completely and it continues to do so.

When I was about 22 years, I gave up looking at the world in the way I once did.

There are a million different experiences wrapped up in my life, and so what I share here I choose to share out of a particular relevance to where I’m at in life at this time.

So for the last three years I’ve been living out of a backpack, traveling the N.W., a bit in California as well, studying and teaching, exploring consciousness with amazing teachers, immersing myself in the depths of humanness.

I own a beautfiul bicycle, a computer, a vitamix and a few different bits of clothing. I rent rooms and I go on journeys when the journey arrives.

I have conversations with people who want more out of their lives, as I do for myself.

And now I’ve chosen to create something different, a new adventure, to teach and coach, to share what I’ve learned, what I have seen, what I have experienced over that time, wrapping up the psychology, the conversations, and the coaching experiences all of it aimed at being and Expert On Yourself.

It’s been like this for me for a long time, being my own guru is a must. Psychological freedom my great desire and expedition. It’s the conversation I live for and the experience I want to share with others.

And I’m going to let that conversation happen in as many ways as it wants to come, and in all the ways I want to share it, but feel hesitant or shy to do so, I will do it anyways.

My discomfort, my insecurities, my shyness will not win.

Life is the strangest art form I know, a continual stream of creation, of judgements, of conclusions that are continually being destroyed in order to create.

It’s about freedom to be and express our desires and wants, even in the challenge that they are.

We’re born. We die. And somwhere in all of it we build and create a life in some form or another.

And I am creation itself as are you.

On Work : Kahlil Gibran

Then a ploughman said, “Speak to us of Work.”
And he answered, saying:
You work that you may keep pace with the earth and the soul of the earth. For to be idle is to become a stranger unto the seasons, and to step out of life’s procession, that marches in majesty and proud submission towards the infinite.
When you work, you are a flute through whose heart the whispering of the hours turns to music.
Which of you would be a reed, dumb and silent, when all else sings together in unison? Always you have been told that work is a curse and labor a misfortune. But I say to you that when you work you fulfill a part of earth’s furthest dream, assigned to you when that dream was born,
And in keeping yourself with labor you are in truth loving life,

And to love life through labor is to be intimate with life’s inmost secret.
But if you in your pain call birth an affliction and the support of the flesh a curse written upon your brow, then I answer that naught but the sweat of your brow shall wash away that which is written.
You have been told also life is darkness, and in your weariness you echo what was said by the weary.
And I say that life is indeed darkness save when there is urge, And all urge is blind save when there is knowledge,

And all knowledge is vain save when there is work,
And all work is empty save when there is love;
And when you work with love you bind yourself to yourself, and to one another, and to God.
And what is it to work with love?
It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear that cloth.
It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in that house.
It is to sow seeds with tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if your beloved were to eat the fruit.
It is to charge all things you fashion with a breath of your own spirit,

And to know that all the blessed dead are standing about you and watching. Often have I heard you say, as if speaking in sleep, “he who works in marble, and finds the shape of his own soul in the stone, is a nobler than he who ploughs the soil.
And he who seizes the rainbow to lay it on a cloth in the likeness of man, is more than he who makes the sandals for our feet.”

But I say, not in sleep but in the over-wakefulness of noontide, that the wind speaks not more sweetly to the giant oaks than to the least of all the blades of grass;
And he alone is great who turns the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter by his own loving.

Work is love made visible.
you cannot work with love but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work with joy.
For if you bake bread with indifference, you bake a bitter bread that feeds but half man’s hunger .
And if you grudge the crushing of the grapes, your grudge distils a poison in the wine.
And if you sing though as angels, and love not the singing, you muffle man’s ears to the voices of the day and the voices of the night.

Kahlil Gibran