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You Are At The Center of The Universe…

By Emeric Damian — February 27, 2022

Welcome my friend,

You have been invited to enter into my kingdom, my world. 

…a world where the imagination is turned on by wonder and curiosity, a world where you are given access to new ways of thinking, shifts in perspectives, and if all goes well, perhaps a new found freedom to create yourself as you desire.

You will learn more about self-creation and the joy of choosing. 

Our relationship will turn you on to yourself in ways you’ve never known, in ways that guide you to taking care of yourself in the most beautiful and powerful way you can imagine, whatever that looks like for you…

Our relationship is about “being” the journey, not just thinking about it.

You are an explorer, an adventurer, your life is about the discovery of a dream, of a life to uncover, of a masterpiece to create.

Paradoxically it is about already being in the living of it ( We will explore the great paradoxes soon ).

You are a movement toward an understanding of your existence, a play in the world that gives you the opportunity to express the fullness of your desires, to be free to explore and tease out the experience of life as you desire, or as it desires for you.

You are the guardian of your story, and both of it and in it.

What story would you love to live?

That’s for you to discover,
Emeric Damian

the medium monster wants your eyeballs…

By Emeric Damian — August 12, 2021

What adventurous times we live in.

A thousand lies mixing with a thousand little truths, the troubled times have never been so confused.

And yet, here you are, here I am, alive and living…

Playing and dancing and planning…

What strange curiosities will life bring next?

That’s about as far as one can get when it comes to outside circumstances, events beyond one’s control.

But what about you and your life?

What about you and your desires?

Yes…

Your story continues to unfold.

Are you taken by anything, enraptured, enveloped and in awe of your existence?

No, yes, sometimes!

NEVER…

The madness…

Well, all is well, all is as it is…

Yet…

All is well.

Let me share with you a little ‘awakening’ I had ages ago.

You see, it had to do with television. I threw mine away, gave it a way actually.

For 15 years, I was without a tv. It was delightful.

Then, the internet started delivering anything and everything a human can want. And because I like to learn, and because it is easy to digest, and because because because because…

Everyone has a “because”, also known as an excuse disguised as, “I can’t do that because…”

because, my business, my girlfriend, my boyfriend, my job, my GOD I can’t turn my phone off…

Television, internet, mobile phones, youtube, social media, netflix and the news, nothing new, choose your stimulant, your depressant, your entertaining lies. Your friend, right there for you, 24 hours a day, online all the time.

So I watched that behaviour play out over some time, watching how my own protective measures of no television, were replaced with a strange mixture of entertainment and education mainlined through the medium.

But there’s a lie wrapped in it.

Oh how funny we humans are, so easy to deceive, so easy to deceive ourselves, “Learning”.

Well, a long time ago, I recognised what was taking place, and I didn’t engage until I did.

All is well…

Until it isn’t…

And even then it is…

So you see, I felt like my mind and mood were beginning to melt away in a deleterious fashion and all at my own behest.

I was choosing it.

And that is the best news ever.

You see, most things in life are out of our control, but the best of life is right here waiting for us to make a choice.

The choice to choose life fulfilling and energy creating activities or…

The dumps of “digital dementia” and self induced insecurities and depression.

Seems like a simple choice, but is it.

You choose…

…do you like to struggle or do you like it easy?

And don’t be too quick to answer.

Honesty runs away from us, particularly when we are looking within.

I will tell you more in the next email about the digital curfew I started on all devices and how powerful the effects have been as well as a short recap of the past year, but for now I am done writing for the moment, but here’s a clue, I am off, off, off, off and in peace and serenity.

There’s a glorious breeze carrying over the valley and through the trees, waiting for me to say yes please.

To making better choices and doing so with love,

Emeric Damian

p.s. “Digital Dementia”, what a beautiful phrase which I first heard about from this video of Prof. Dr. Manfred Spitzer…

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How Can You Simplify Your Life Right Now For Inner Peace, Contentment, and Results?

By Emeric Damian — March 31, 2020

It must be stated…

Simplify, simplify, simplify by doing less…

…not doing more.

And to remind you that the world wants your attention, I melted together a video clip from 1979 that I found on youtube, a clip of archivial footage that was capturing the soon to be future.

It had already happened and it will continue to take you if you don’t allow yourself to attend to what’s important in your life.

Your life is your life…

You don’t have to give it away to others, unless you wish to.

There’s not much more that needs to be said.

You will be challenged to create space and time for what matters most to you.

But it’s a challenge worth taking on.

“May you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days.”

By Emeric Damian — February 15, 2020

If you want to write, if you want to create, you must be the most sublime fool that God ever turned out and sent rambling. You must write every single day of your life. You must read dreadful dumb books and glorious books, and let them wrestle in beautiful fights inside your head, vulgar one moment, brilliant the next. You must lurk in libraries and climb the stacks like ladders to sniff books like perfumes and wear books like hats upon your crazy heads. I wish you a wrestling match with your Creative Muse that will last a lifetime. I wish craziness and foolishness and madness upon you. May you live with hysteria, and out of it make fine stories — science fiction or otherwise. Which finally means, may you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days. And out of that love, remake a world.

Ray Bradbury as quoted in Advice to Writers, Jon Winokur, 2000

“May you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days. And out of that love, remake the world.”

If you are to take to the world, may you be in love every day, while you create and play in your way, the way, which is yours.

Forgetting One Way Of Being To Embrace Another : Taking on The Perfection Of Speed, Completion, and Good Is Great.

By Emeric Damian — February 13, 2020

You could look a this as the triple threat or better yet, a convergence of ideas that birth a kind of superpower in the individual.

This can be thought of as a protective mechanism that is being applied to a way of doing life.

In this doing you are taking on a way of being.

Is it useful for you?

Is it a hindrance?

On your quest to know yourself, to see and experience what works best for you, as a way of applying and perhaps letting loose your superpower, your incredible ability to bypass the critic, the sound of doubt, and the inner voice that doesn’t belong to you, even though it pretends it does, you will be gifted the power of speed, completion, and ‘good’ is great.

The faster you can move in life with regards to those things where moving fast makes sense and even in cases where it would not seem to, you have tapped into a new potential.

It takes practice to be the creature who lives in that regard.

Then again, you may take right to it.

I hope you do, because I know it will serve you if you allow it to.

It has the ability to remove the force of procrastination and non-doing, when everything in you wants you to do, and then you find yourself going for walks instead.

Walks are wonderful, but not when you’ve gone for your thirty third walk to the cafe while carrying the weight of knowing you are not doing what you wish to do, and thus, you seem to be doing what you wish to do, even though that is not what you wanted.

Perhaps the system of all systems is desire and wanting…

Perhaps wanting and desiring are not enough.

There’s only one way to find out and that is to find out.

So find out for yourself and see what comes.

Living In The Choice of Now To Get To What’s Next…

By Emeric Damian — February 9, 2020

There are times in life where you want to transform yourself.

There are moments when enough of being one way is enough of being that being.

There are choices living before you, waiting for you to take to them, to court them, to ask for their power to be transmuted into your being.

Now, now, now…

Wait a minute?

And that is the cycle that you’ve been partaking in for a long enough time to know that it will no longer wait, as waiting is a disease of its own kind.

Now…

Yes or no…

Never a moment to express a sentiment true…

The now is standing, waiting for you.

There’s a philophy of existence, a way of taking on a beingness of the nowness, not a now as in now is all there ever is.

Which is a platitude to deflect the truth of the now.

No, this is a question of living in the question of choosing to take care of this now, so to move on to what’s next.

The cause of now, is the cause of then, and what then often is an unknown, but it only comes when there is a cause.

What a curious way to unravel what’s so, by choosing to unknow so to know.

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