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the medium monster wants your eyeballs…

By Emeric Damian — August 12, 2021

What adventurous times we live in.

A thousand lies mixing with a thousand little truths, the troubled times have never been so confused.

And yet, here you are, here I am, alive and living…

Playing and dancing and planning…

What strange curiosities will life bring next?

That’s about as far as one can get when it comes to outside circumstances, events beyond one’s control.

But what about you and your life?

What about you and your desires?

Yes…

Your story continues to unfold.

Are you taken by anything, enraptured, enveloped and in awe of your existence?

No, yes, sometimes!

NEVER…

The madness…

Well, all is well, all is as it is…

Yet…

All is well.

Let me share with you a little ‘awakening’ I had ages ago.

You see, it had to do with television. I threw mine away, gave it a way actually.

For 15 years, I was without a tv. It was delightful.

Then, the internet started delivering anything and everything a human can want. And because I like to learn, and because it is easy to digest, and because because because because…

Everyone has a “because”, also known as an excuse disguised as, “I can’t do that because…”

because, my business, my girlfriend, my boyfriend, my job, my GOD I can’t turn my phone off…

Television, internet, mobile phones, youtube, social media, netflix and the news, nothing new, choose your stimulant, your depressant, your entertaining lies. Your friend, right there for you, 24 hours a day, online all the time.

So I watched that behaviour play out over some time, watching how my own protective measures of no television, were replaced with a strange mixture of entertainment and education mainlined through the medium.

But there’s a lie wrapped in it.

Oh how funny we humans are, so easy to deceive, so easy to deceive ourselves, “Learning”.

Well, a long time ago, I recognised what was taking place, and I didn’t engage until I did.

All is well…

Until it isn’t…

And even then it is…

So you see, I felt like my mind and mood were beginning to melt away in a deleterious fashion and all at my own behest.

I was choosing it.

And that is the best news ever.

You see, most things in life are out of our control, but the best of life is right here waiting for us to make a choice.

The choice to choose life fulfilling and energy creating activities or…

The dumps of “digital dementia” and self induced insecurities and depression.

Seems like a simple choice, but is it.

You choose…

…do you like to struggle or do you like it easy?

And don’t be too quick to answer.

Honesty runs away from us, particularly when we are looking within.

I will tell you more in the next email about the digital curfew I started on all devices and how powerful the effects have been as well as a short recap of the past year, but for now I am done writing for the moment, but here’s a clue, I am off, off, off, off and in peace and serenity.

There’s a glorious breeze carrying over the valley and through the trees, waiting for me to say yes please.

To making better choices and doing so with love,

Emeric Damian

p.s. “Digital Dementia”, what a beautiful phrase which I first heard about from this video of Prof. Dr. Manfred Spitzer…

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How Can You Simplify Your Life Right Now For Inner Peace, Contentment, and Results?

By Emeric Damian — March 31, 2020

It must be stated…

Simplify, simplify, simplify by doing less…

…not doing more.

And to remind you that the world wants your attention, I melted together a video clip from 1979 that I found on youtube, a clip of archivial footage that was capturing the soon to be future.

It had already happened and it will continue to take you if you don’t allow yourself to attend to what’s important in your life.

Your life is your life…

You don’t have to give it away to others, unless you wish to.

There’s not much more that needs to be said.

You will be challenged to create space and time for what matters most to you.

But it’s a challenge worth taking on.

Forgetting One Way Of Being To Embrace Another : Taking on The Perfection Of Speed, Completion, and Good Is Great.

By Emeric Damian — February 13, 2020

You could look a this as the triple threat or better yet, a convergence of ideas that birth a kind of superpower in the individual.

This can be thought of as a protective mechanism that is being applied to a way of doing life.

In this doing you are taking on a way of being.

Is it useful for you?

Is it a hindrance?

On your quest to know yourself, to see and experience what works best for you, as a way of applying and perhaps letting loose your superpower, your incredible ability to bypass the critic, the sound of doubt, and the inner voice that doesn’t belong to you, even though it pretends it does, you will be gifted the power of speed, completion, and ‘good’ is great.

The faster you can move in life with regards to those things where moving fast makes sense and even in cases where it would not seem to, you have tapped into a new potential.

It takes practice to be the creature who lives in that regard.

Then again, you may take right to it.

I hope you do, because I know it will serve you if you allow it to.

It has the ability to remove the force of procrastination and non-doing, when everything in you wants you to do, and then you find yourself going for walks instead.

Walks are wonderful, but not when you’ve gone for your thirty third walk to the cafe while carrying the weight of knowing you are not doing what you wish to do, and thus, you seem to be doing what you wish to do, even though that is not what you wanted.

Perhaps the system of all systems is desire and wanting…

Perhaps wanting and desiring are not enough.

There’s only one way to find out and that is to find out.

So find out for yourself and see what comes.

Living In The Choice of Now To Get To What’s Next…

By Emeric Damian — February 9, 2020

There are times in life where you want to transform yourself.

There are moments when enough of being one way is enough of being that being.

There are choices living before you, waiting for you to take to them, to court them, to ask for their power to be transmuted into your being.

Now, now, now…

Wait a minute?

And that is the cycle that you’ve been partaking in for a long enough time to know that it will no longer wait, as waiting is a disease of its own kind.

Now…

Yes or no…

Never a moment to express a sentiment true…

The now is standing, waiting for you.

There’s a philophy of existence, a way of taking on a beingness of the nowness, not a now as in now is all there ever is.

Which is a platitude to deflect the truth of the now.

No, this is a question of living in the question of choosing to take care of this now, so to move on to what’s next.

The cause of now, is the cause of then, and what then often is an unknown, but it only comes when there is a cause.

What a curious way to unravel what’s so, by choosing to unknow so to know.

Momentum Is Magic…

By Emeric Damian — December 12, 2019

Today’s story is a tale of momentum, a tale of floating with the wind, a tale of letting go and entering the stream.

It’s a short story, with few characters, few words, and a simple plot.

The character, you.

The plot, distraction steals your mind from your future.

The outcome, you choose.

And in all of the wonder we find ourselves maneuvering in a million different ways, playing upon a landscape of distractions, of stretched thin desires, and in all of it, the flattening of our movement.

And in this we discover what we already know, momentum is the magic that creates miracles.

Keep Your Momentum Around The One Thing You Know Will Change Everything!

Find a person in your life that refuses to allow you to lose your momentum and watch the magic and miracles come about.

It’s up to you to find that person.

Unconventional and Bold It’s Your Life

For the love of beauty, for love and beauty ( Email : 016 )

By Emeric Damian — September 21, 2019

“Everything is changing and nothing is different”…

Well, you look a little older to me. That’s different isn’t it.

“The paradox of existence, a whisper of transformation”…

Why are you always speaking in riddles and piddles. You’re impossible…

“Impossibility, yes, I am possibility. It’s built into the word itself. You are an impossibility! And yet, here you are. Explain yourself or they will do it for you…” 

They… Who are they? 

“The experts, the authors, your teachers, parents, friends… The voices in your head that aren’t you… The Theys, in there, always haunting you, whispering into your ears, ‘this is the way.”

That’s stupid, and impossible. I do what I want to do…

“If it were only so, you’d already be free, but we’re still here discussing possibility.” 

No, you are discussing possibility, I am discussing your stupidity. 

“Not not, who’s there?”

I’m not answering you. 

“Not not, who’s there?”

“Not not, who’s there?”

Who? Who’s there, who’s there, who’s there?

“It’s a good question. And no one can answer that question for you but yourself…” 

Damn it… 

“Shhh… Listen… Do you hear that?” 

You’re impossible… 

“We are, aren’t we.” 

I don’t know what we are. 

“Guess what?”

No thank you…

“I don’t know either, nor do they, the magical equation, is and can only ever be, for you, your way. Freaky isn’t it. Seven billion souls, and only one will ever traverse the terrain of this existence as you. It’s a one person ride. It always has been, always will be, your way is the only way. It’s built into the birth and it’s beautiful.”

It kind of hurts… 

“I know.” 
… … …

“The magical equation“…

The formula for the well lived life…

The Magical Equation…

Oh what a terror it is, that sweet ephemeral mystery that echoes in the distance.

“Follow me, my way, this way, I will show you how…” 

And then…

Years pass…

And in silence you sit, whispering to yourself, “They promised me this was the way.”

“Why would they lie to me?” 

“Why wouldn’t they tell me the truth?” 

“I had one simple question, one simple request and they couldn’t answer it honestly, ‘How should I live my life?‘ ” 

“All those years, the whispers, I listened…”

The whispers, hollow nightmares, ghosts preying upon the heart, the seed of conformity planting itself inside the soul, ‘this way, our way is the only way, we promise you’.

Do this first, then get this taken care of, then after that you will want to, next, you need to prepare for, and then when you are finally done, you can…

Live your life…

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I don’t know about you, but since you are here with me, I am going to assume that waiting to live your life because you first have to do all the things that you were told you were supposed to do, is unacceptable.

Also,it is completely unacceptable to say these words, “I have lived a good life…” 

You see in that is a death sentence as well.

If you are reading these words, you are not finished living. 

So…

In the next few days, I will share a few words on the truth, on sincerity, on knowing that, “Your Way Is The Way”. 

For some, the words may be harsh and difficult to acknowledge, for you, it will inspire.

You are pure possibility and no one, not even you know what you are capable of…

At least, not yet.   

~ Emeric Damian
For the love of beauty, for love and beauty

p.s.  Nothing here today…

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Emeric Damian love@emericdamian.com https://questingtheunknown.com
What I’m up to now: http://questingtheunknown.com/now

** For the love of beauty, for love and beauty…**

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